Dildo

A dildo is a non-motorised sex toy available in a surprisingly wide range of shapes, sizes and materials. Some have a realistic appearance, while others have a smoother, simpler or more stylised design.

That variety is useful because there isn't one size or shape that works for everybody. Someone buying their first dildo may have completely different priorities from someone who already knows the dimensions, firmness and shape they prefer.

Rather than choosing on appearance alone, check the measurements and product details before buying.

This is usually the harder question.

If you're new to dildos, don't assume that bigger automatically means better. A smaller or slimmer design can be a more approachable starting point. If you already know what you like, you can compare larger sizes, different shapes and additional features.

Pay particular attention to insertable length and width or girth where those measurements are provided. Product photographs aren't a reliable way of judging actual size.

Material matters too. Check the individual listing to see exactly what a product is made from and follow its specific care instructions.

This mostly comes down to personal preference.

Realistic dildos are designed with a more lifelike shape and appearance. They can vary considerably in length, girth, colour, texture and firmness.

A non-realistic dildo puts less emphasis on lifelike appearance. These products may use curved, smooth, textured or more abstract shapes instead.

Neither style is inherently better. Think about the shape and features you actually want rather than choosing simply because a product belongs to one category.

Silicone is commonly found across dildo ranges, and Lovehoney's UK catalogue, for example, has a dedicated silicone category alongside realistic and other dildo types.

If you're considering a silicone dildo, still read the individual specification rather than assuming that every silicone product feels or behaves exactly the same. Firmness, flexibility, texture and overall construction can vary between designs.

Cleaning and care instructions can vary as well, so follow the information supplied with the particular product you purchase.

Ignore the product photo for a moment and look at the numbers.

Two dildos can appear almost identical online but feel very different because of their length or width. Check the product dimensions carefully and, where available, pay particular attention to insertable length rather than overall length.

If you're uncertain about size, starting with a more manageable option gives you room to work out what you prefer before considering something larger.

This is also why terms such as “small”, “large” and “girthy” shouldn't be your only guide—the actual measurements tell you much more.

Before adding a dildo to your basket, open its product page and spend a minute checking the details.

Look at its dimensions, material, shape, flexibility, texture and base design. Some models may also include features such as a suction-cup base or other functionality, while others deliberately keep things simple.

If you need a product for a particular type of use, make sure its design is specifically suitable for that purpose rather than assuming that every dildo can be used in exactly the same way.

Buying online gives you time to compare products privately instead of making a rushed choice.

At C'Mon Baby, you can browse the available dildo range, open individual products and compare their sizes and features before deciding.

Orders are sent in plain, unbranded packaging, so there's no indication of what's inside from the outside.